COMMUNICATION IN RELATIONSHIP.

COMMUNICATION IN RELATIONSHIP.
Good day. I am Julio. I will be talking about communication in relationship today.
Communication simply mean a message either written or oral which contains information's or means of passing an information which entails the sender, the receiver, and the message itself. 

Communication is very important and functional set up of a relationship; in relating, building minds, thoughts, friendship, determinations and results. Communication also intensifies the need to make relationships inhabitable and conducive for both partners in achieving their common goals in life. There are difference between love and communication, trust and cares, to a great extent, I have learnt that an individual can love and trust even to the point of being caring, but do not have a great relationship mentality with their partners. I'm going to talk exemplify the importance of communication in a relationship which is going to last a while; though, we have so many aspect of communication, let's focus on the importance at the moment and we have all day to take it one after the other.

IMPORTANCE OF COMMUNICATION IN A WELL DEFINED RELATIONSHIP

1. It gives room for closeness: Closeness or being close denotes being part of someone, having an affectionate closeness, intimacy(related to being close by a special bond), an adage which explained as closeness of a soap with leaves makes it soap after a long time being together. In this reaction, closeness is a fundamental element and status quo of a well defined relationship, its very advisable for all partners which helps you share your differences, weakened points, attitudes, ambitions and goals, possibly how to build the future together, just saying that. It makes paradise closer than what it is. Closeness is the heat that chases always coldness in the winter, it removes blanket when you are in the snow, it brings you together when you are lost in your own way, it exposes the secret behind unhappiness, it enlightens your sense of humor and makes you feel comfortable, it enables your mind to concentrate on other things rather than insecurities in your relationship and will give you a balanced mind even at the point of trouble.

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2. It sweeps aside fear and sensitivity:. This simply implies that communication chases away fear. Let me ask you a question, can you cope with a guy whom you are afraid to to look in the eye? Your simple answer will be '' hell NO" But so many people especially women have found themselves languishing in fear daily and they cannot speak up by themselves until someone comes up and do that for them. Why? If you ask them, they will tell you that they have a perfect relationship with their spouse after all its only communication they lacked. Interesting
To some extent, people in that shoe prefers sending messages on mobile phones or email, even write in piece of jotters, oh I can't face him, he is too much of himself or he talks to me anyhow. I don't want that. That ain't communication its just a mere disturbance. When you are always sensitive about things in your relationship or afraid to take decisions believing the other party won't take it lightly with you, then, you are already drowned, it only a miracle can help you come out of this mess, just how it is, that how it will be forever until you decide to lift yourself from this, if your wrong past is what keeps lingering in his heart or you don't wanna lose him, it shouldn't stop your interaction as lovers, speak up, if you are this type of mess, everything is supposed to go on smoothly even if its not all the time. Remove fear and sensitivity and your relationship will take a definite shape.

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3. The make up of a relationship:- it  exposes weakness of individuals and strengthen them, there are mistakes and corrections, no relationship is made from heaven, no matter how divinely chosen they might be, it has ups and downs, that's why its called relationships, in the sense that they relate together in a ship like colony, they aren't separated, they act and behave together, no matter the storm offenses, they stick together, they are balanced through harsh and bitter weather, they enjoy the breeze and the evening sunlight, if anything happens, they sink together. That's why its called relationship. During this, it exposes their weakness all because they are open to each other including their priorities and ego's, opinions, likes, dislikes, emotionality and rigidity. They don't give up on each other, and they strengthen the weakened vessel of individual so it won't show up to outsiders, that's why it works for them, let me cite this example, if a man knows his wife isn't capable of handling some home chores all alone, instead of taking in an house maid, they might reached and agreement to help each other in doing that, I call it understanding which can only be obtained through proper and blended communication. Denoting our weakness and working on them makes us stronger, and this is effective when there is lubricated communication between the pair.

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4. Reduces anxiety and helps develop ideas:- Communication makes room for talks and discussions which exposes heavy burdens on the heart or particular workplace issues, when you have an heavy heart, you have someone to discus that with, it suppresses, anxiety often lead to depression, which, in every way very dangerous for individuals well being, if you see someone to discus your issues with, at the right time, you may be satisfied to some extent,even if it wasn't the solution you need, at least, someone cares. It cools your Spanglish nerves and keep you balanced for the next task.
Developing ideas and maintaining them are also included in communication, they help you think straight and evolve ideas which is gonna be beneficial to the both parties. You discuss heart to heart words, and look for every means to acquire what you desire. Now let me ask you this, if you guys aren't communicating, how are you going to achieved that?

READ THIS: Developing ideas and working on it in a well defined relationship

5. Trust is involved, Cheating is evicted: In a smooth all day communed relationship, you are expected to trust each other completely, without grudges or sentiments, trust is the fundamental background or a foundation to effect a lasting affection between couples of same motives and direction. The moment you trust your spouse, everything becomes what they are supposed to be, cheating and offenses will be extinguished, you are one in love, you share whatever happens in the offices, on the street, they are not burying any secret, which ever or whatever, they relate as kids to parent, they are not afraid to be opened to each other, absolutely, they believe they are on safer hands, they build their relationship with confidence and relationship, so tell me, why would cheating creep in? Why would you hide something from each other when there is sunshine to light your way when your heart is darkened. All you believe is, he won't do that, she won't hurt me or act that way.
Third parties can influence something detrimental to this effect but being careful and trust will surely chase away fear and emotional disturbance. I'm not saying that there won't be hidden secrets(both parties do that occasionally) but there should be no hidden agenda. If your wall is not opened, lapses and cheating will be exempted. In this, you can cheat your partner not be by having extra marital affairs.

Hope you are able to flow with my write up. Don't mind my punctuation. I remain your host. Adecy julio